I've been away for a while, I have new bad takes to share!
1) I genuinely dislike a lot of earlygame content.
From my perspective, earlygame is characterised by Sand-Attack, having low enough stats that Growl and Harden spam is actually annoying, Sand-Attack, minimal access to status-healing items (either because the shops aren't selling them yet or because I don't have enough money to stock up on them), forcing multiple runs to the Pokemon Centre every time a 10% burn or paralysis happens, Pokemon with really bad early learnsets, Sand-Attack, Abras before Great Ball access, Bide turning every Pokemon you can't two-shot into a time-bomb, Sand-Attack, crits being uniformly deadly, Supersonic hitting 90% of the time for the AI and 20% of the time for the player, and Sand-Attack.
Getting past Gym 2 normally has a sort of "Oh thank god, now I can enjoy the rest of the game" moment. Though this is less annoying in Gen VI-VII thanks to the EXP Share, and barely an inconvenience in Gen VIII-IX thanks to perma-EXP Share.
2) Gen VIII-IX EXP Share is fine, y'all are just mean.
I solved the problem of "You level up too fast" in these games by just... using more Pokemon. You can access the PC box from anywhere, so I just added more guys until I was comfortably staying on the level curve. And then I barely had to grind at all, making Shining Pearl one of the smoothest and most enjoyable runs ever. As a bonus, it meant that when Cynthia promptly bent me over a table, I had a second team of guys that were already in the late 50s, and the grind for the revenge run didn't take a whole day.
This is generally how I've approached both Nuzlocke and casual playthroughs since the release of BDSP. I just have a team of 12. If I see something new that I want to use, I don't face the awkward decision of who to box, I just add them to the list. Like, in my runthrough of Violet, I was using a Gardevoir, and then I learned that Sharpness now exists, so I just went and added a male Kirlia to the party and I used both.
3) I actually really like BDSP.
Now, would I have preferred a Gen IV remake on the level of ORAS? Yeah. Do I think Platinum should've been either the primary basis or at least heavily factored in, like HGSS? Definitely.
But if I'm quite honest, "DP but the trainer AI isn't literally random, it runs smoothly, it's faster, you grind less, there's better Pokemon access, and Fairies now exist" isn't an awful game to play. I don't hate playing BDSP, and I quite like the curveballs it throws. I've never been more scared of earlygame Abras, and I love it.
And I will say that I don't think Pokemon remakes have ever done an amazing job of solving the problems of their original counterparts. RGBY's non-glitch issues are still present in FRLG, and they added some new ones too. Same for GSC and HGSS. ORAS comes out looking better IMO, but that has much more to do with RSE being, in my opinion, a superior foundation.
I've now run BDSP twice (or was it three times?) and I had a pretty good time with all of the runs I did. I'll probably do another at some point.